Consent & Etiquette at Submissive Girls London

A Culture of Conscious Kink

At Submissive Girls London, we believe that true pleasure begins with respect, trust, and integrity.
Every experience we offer is grounded in conscious BDSM — an approach that values communication, consent, and emotional safety as much as sensual exploration.

Our ethos is simple: Kink should always be safe, sane, and consensual — never coerced, rushed, or unclear.

Whether you are new to BDSM or an experienced player, you are entering a space where both client and companion are equals. The experience is a shared exchange, not a transaction of power.

Money does not buy control — it confirms an agreement for time and service, always within mutual respect and consent.

Our Etiquette Framework

We follow the Universal Code of Conscious BDSM, inspired by professional ethical standards.
Every interaction — from first contact to aftercare — is guided by clarity, communication, and consent.

Our Core Principles

Consent: Informed, enthusiastic, and ongoing. Either party may stop at any time.
Safety: Physical, emotional, and psychological well-being come first.
Mutual Respect: Both roles are equal in worth and responsibility.
Aftercare: Emotional check-ins and grounding are part of every session.
Inclusivity: All bodies, genders, and backgrounds are welcome.
Sobriety: No play with impaired individuals — awareness is essential.
Boundaries: No changes or additions once a session has begun.
Communication: Clarity before, during, and after.
Freedom Within Framework: Exploration is encouraged — within safety and consent.

Your Journey: Step by Step

To ensure every encounter is conscious, safe, and enjoyable, please follow these three simple steps.

Step 1 – Before the Session: Clarity and Agreement

Your first point of contact is always our receptionist, who is trained to guide you through all details of your appointment.

During this conversation, you will:

Discuss your preferred scenario or fantasy, including tone, style, and any specific requests.
Confirm outfit choices or role-play themes.
Outline services you are interested in and confirm they are available.
Schedule your appointment time and duration.
Discuss payment options — some ladies accept card payment, others prefer cash.
Receive clear information about what is and isn’t included in your booking.

At this stage, you are also welcome to ask any questions about etiquette, limits, or expectations.
Our receptionist will guide you professionally and discreetly — no explicit or street language is permitted during calls.

Step 2 – At the Start of the Session: Safety and Boundaries

Before the fantasy begins, you and the lady will have a short pre-session check-in.
This is an essential part of building trust and ensuring mutual comfort.

Together, you will:

Discuss safe words (for example, the traffic light system: green = continue, amber = slow down, red = stop).
Clarify limits and boundaries — both soft and hard limits.
Agree on the desired intensity level, emotional tone, and style of play.
Address any health conditions, triggers, or sensitivities.
Confirm that both parties are sober, aware, and comfortable.

This conversation is private, respectful, and confidential — it creates the foundation for a safe and enjoyable session.

Step 3 – During the Session: Conscious Play

Once all agreements are clear, you may step into the fantasy.
Within this space, everything is guided by mutual consent, respect, and awareness.

Please remember:

Stay attentive to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal cues.
Use the safe word system whenever needed — and honour it immediately.
Keep within the agreed boundaries and never attempt to change the dynamic or request unplanned acts.
Maintain physical hygiene — freshly showered, hands washed or sanitised.
Remain present and sober throughout.
No photography, video, or recording without the lady’s explicit verbal consent.

The goal is to create a shared experience of pleasure, trust, and connection — never discomfort or pressure.

Behaviour & House Etiquette

To keep our space respectful, safe, and welcoming, please observe the following guidelines:

General Conduct

Speak politely to all staff and companions — no explicit talk outside the session.
Roleplay and fantasy begin only once the session starts; outside of that, normal manners apply.
Confidentiality is vital — discretion is mutual.

Hygiene & Preparation

Arrive clean and on time.
Showers and towels are available at our premises.
Wash or sanitise hands before play begins.

Timing & Payment

Be punctual and respect the booked duration. If you cannot attend the session anymore please cancel ahead of time.
No shows would not be welcome back.
Payment is to be sorted before the sessions starts.

Respect & Boundaries

No means no.
Any breach of consent or disrespectful behaviour will result in the immediate end of the session, with no refund.
Our ladies’ comfort, safety, and dignity are non-negotiable.

Why This Matters

Consent is not a technicality — it is the heart of real connection.
When you engage consciously, you allow space for trust, pleasure, and mutual respect to flourish.

At Submissive Girls London, we don’t just offer encounters — we create experiences that are safe, conscious, and real.

Because true BDSM is never about control — it’s about freedom within respect.

Submissive Girls London
Where desire meets integrity.